As women, we are often misguided in our notions regarding the
“strong Christian woman”. We have built
her up into some kind of spiritual superwoman. She doesn’t get discouraged or
depressed. She has endless energy, no major weaknesses and doesn’t struggle
with habitual sin and she has Michelle Obama’s perfectly sculpted biceps (okay,
maybe that's just me!).
I am no theologian, but I would like to paint a picture of a
different type of strong, Christian woman. The type of woman I am striving to be (although I'm definitely not there yet): A woman whose strength flows out of her weakness- who is not
afraid to admit her failures, her anxieties and her shortcomings because she knows
Christ’s power is made perfect in her weakness.
Recently, my friend, fellow missionary Amber Carter and I
helped put on our Midwest women’s retreat. Our theme was: Sisterhood: Standing Strong
Together, Empowered to Fight the Battle. We used military images as a
metaphor for how we must band together as soldiers for Christ.
After one of our sessions, a dear friend and sister from one
of our churches asked me what it meant to “Step up and fight the battle.” She
further stated that she didn’t see herself as a soldier. I was surprised by her
response. I know this woman- she is a leader of a wonderful women’s group in
her church. She has a heart and passion to minister to the hurting. She once
gave up the pair of shoes she was wearing during an outreach event at a park to
a homeless woman who had no shoes. Without a second thought, she graciously
gave them away and continued with the outreach in only her socks.
I replied, “You are already fighting the battle! You lead a
women’s ministry in which you persevere despite health issues, conflict and
trials. You push through even when times are tough.”
With tears in her eyes, she quietly said, “I don’t see
myself as being strong. I’m tired and worn down.”
Giving her a big hug, I firmly reminded her, “You are a
strong leader. You are a veteran soldier on the battlefield- faithfully serving
our commander, Christ.”
Maybe you don’t feel strong today. Maybe your recent
struggles and hardships have left you battered and bruised. Maybe you, too,
feel the overwhelming presence of your own weaknesses.
But take heart! 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 says,
But
he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you,
for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power
of Christ may rest upon me. 10 For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with
weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am
weak, then I am strong.
To all my dear sisters in Christ: May you
feel the power of the Holy Spirit in you. May you know the victory of our Lord
over sin and death. May you know the strength
of Christ in your most weakest moments.
